REVIEW – ALL THESE SMALL MOMENTS. With Brendan Meyer, Molly Ringwald, Jemima Kirke, Harley Quinn Smith, Brian d’Arcy James. Written and directed by Melissa Miller Costanzo. Rated PG for thematic elements, some peril and language. 96 minutes
The emotional life of an adolescent can seem rough and raw because they’re experiencing so much for the first time. ALL THESE SMALL MOMENTS follows Howie Sheffield (Brendan Meyer) as he navigates several upheavals and, as in life, they’re all happening at the same time. At home his parents (Molly Ringwald, Brian d’Arcy James) seem headed for divorce, and not hiding from Howie or his brother (Sam McCarthy) just how tension and animosity has grown between them. The boys are helpless by-standers, but it affects them nonetheless.
Meanwhile, there are women in Howie’s life – sort of – and he’s equally at a loss what to do about it. One is Odessa (Jemima Kirk), whom he sees every day on the bus and develops a crush on, even though she doesn’t know him and is clearly several years older. The other is Lindsay (Harley Quinn Smith), another high school student he meets in study hall when he has to sit out gym due to a broken arm. She’s interested, and he might be too except for an ugly rumor about her.
The script by writer/director Melissa Miller Costanzo, making her feature debut after a career in film and television as an art director and production designer, consists of the “small moments” that can have great significance. Whether it’s a confession, a revelation, or a reconciliation, this is a movie about people trying to live their lives, not engage in car chases or fending off an alien invasion. It resonates precisely because the characters seem fallible and very real.
The actors fit the mold as well, with Meyer conveying the uncertainty that is the hallmark of adolescence. His puppy dog demeanor explains why the “older woman” is willing to befriend him rather than shoo him away, with Kirk’s character slowly revealing why she needs affirmation in her life as well, even if we think we know how it has to end up. Similarly, while the film is very much from Howie’s point of view, Smith’s character exposes that the teen years are hard on girls too. Ringwald and James have the tougher job, acquitting themselves well as we watch the pettiness and betrayals of a failing marriage while not making us wonder why they ever got together in the first place.
Like an impressionist painting, “All These Small Moments” is greater than the sum of the parts, with no single plot line and payoff but instead a portrait of a teenage boy learning that life is about doing the best you can, even if things don’t always turn out the way you expect.•••
Daniel M. Kimmel is a veteran movie critic and author of a host of film-related books. His new novel, Father of the Bride of Frankenstein, will be released this month. He is the 2018 recipient of the Skylark Award given by the New England Science Fiction Association. He lives in Somerville, Massachusetts.